Thoughts on Dating

Why do we laugh, or more importantly how do we laugh? We laugh when we are having fun, and fun, ladies and gentlemen is where we all want to be in a relationship. Just because you have 7 children and up to your neck in bills and stress doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t have fun. The problem is that we can’t see past the seriousness of our own life. Yes life is a serious matter, but the trivialities of life have a tendency to keep you trapped inside an endless loop of seriousness. Laughing has been a proven medicine for centuries and like the saying goes: You laugh, you live longer. I want to change it to: You laugh, you love longer. Me and my wife are 32 and 28, but sometimes we act like we are 15. We joke around and laugh with each other a lot and I wonder if we’re the only ones doing that. The answer is that we aren’t. I observe other people and their relationship and the ones that are going well are usually filled with laughter. The ones that are miserable look that way… miserable

What I really want to say  is this You are the one I hate The one I want to leave, to lie to, and to commiserate the misery you create with your selfishness and sloth you make me feel so wrong and not in the right way you make me feel the shame we share thinking you’re not good enough for me for life for love but you are but you won’t try and you don’t even care enough to lie and say you love me when you do for all the things I am and am not and for all the things you are and are not because you dare not dream that life can be better better with a woman like me and you hate me too you hate me for loving you and I hate me for that too. What I really want to say is this I loved you I loved you for all the wrong and right reasons but you were a love for one season of summer of an affair to remember and discard for winter clothes and coats because you made me hot but you could not keep me warm through cold nights and drudgery that a  man and woman share when they are are in love not strong

Dear Bitter Single Guy:   Throughout my life I’ve always been the big brother or the best friend to most girls. Recently, a few people said they like me. But then said they “have a thing with someone else” or “were just too good of friends”. I haven’t been in a relationship for awhile. I was wondering if you could tell me how to move past being the best friend or the second option? ~More Than Friends~ https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Canada/Quebec/city-of-Quebec.html?page=7 https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Canada/Alberta/city-of-Slave-Lake.html?page=7 https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Canada/Ontario/city-of-North-York.html?page=7 https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Canada/Ontario/city-of-Markham.html?page=7 https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Canada/Saskatchewan/city-of-Yorkton.html?page=7 Dear MTF:  The Bitter Single Guy feels your pain, brother. The BSG himself spent time with way more friends and way fewer girlfriends than