Laughing: The Recipe For A Happy Relationship
Why do we laugh, or more importantly how do we laugh? We laugh when we are having fun, and fun, ladies and gentlemen is where we all want to be in a relationship. Just because you have 7 children and up to your neck in bills and stress doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t have fun. The problem is that we can’t see past the seriousness of our own life. Yes life is a serious matter, but the trivialities of life have a tendency to keep you trapped inside an endless loop of seriousness.
Laughing has been a proven medicine for centuries and like the saying goes: You laugh, you live longer. I want to change it to: You laugh, you love longer. Me and my wife are 32 and 28, but sometimes we act like we are 15. We joke around and laugh with each other a lot and I wonder if we’re the only ones doing that. The answer is that we aren’t. I observe other people and their relationship and the ones that are going well are usually filled with laughter. The ones that are miserable look that way… miserable. Laugh a little! Live a little! How do you keep it light and funny in your relationship?
1. Don’t take yourself so serious!
A lot of people get easily offended these days. It doesn’t take much to piss these people off and it’s a certain sign that they are way to serious about themselves. You can have a plan for life and be responsible, but I don’t see why that should stop you from laughing and be self-conscious about it. Life is too short and that’s why you should mix your well-ordered life with laughter and joy.
2. Make it a point to laugh.
I had a period in my life where I was too serious and had trouble laughing. I became aware of this through friends and I made a conscious decision to let myself laugh more. The way I did it was to order myself to watch at least one Seinfeld episode every day and nothing gets me laughing more than Seinfeld (except for my beautiful and funny wife of course). Take certain steps to start laughing more, whether that means watching funny videos on YouTube or talking to your funniest friends, do it today!
3. If you can’t laugh, smile.
Every bit of laughter starts with a smile. Well maybe not, but it’s incredible how a smile can change your situation into a more pleasant experience. As silly as it may sound, look at yourself in the mirror, make funny faces and smile. It will surely tickle your funny bone and you will feel a lot better. If you do this every day, you will feel much better and smiling becomes natural to you. Yes, you can forget how to smile, I did once, but now I can’t stop smiling and laughing together with my wife.
I love being able to smile and laugh with my wife and I know she does too. I’m one hundred percent sure that it’s a recipe for a long lasting and fun relationship. We have had our share of bad surprises in life, but we find a way to get through it all with a little laughter and a lot of love.
Try it today with your partner; try to smile, and then laugh. Make silly jokes, even if it means that your partner looks at you funny. It’s happening to me all the time, but it’s a funny thing, it’s with love. Sometimes I do silly things, I can burst into song at any moment, make up silly rhymes. My wife looks at me with a funny look like she’s wondering what happened to me. I can see that inside she is laughing and I am laughing too.
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