What Makes A Good Pickup Artist?

This question enters my head as I lie here on the floor typing on my computer.

Why am I lying here on the floor you ask?

Simple. I don’t want to buy a computer desk. It’s not that I can’t afford it. It is simply that I do not wish to spend any money on a computer desk. So I am content to lie here on the floor and type. Now, if a computer desk just so happened to be made available and free for the taking. You can bet that your favorite pick-up artist on the make will snatch it right up. Even if it involves some late night liberation.

So what does make a good pick-up artist?

It’s simple! Though, after reading the book A brief history in Time, by Stephen Hawkins, I thought that quantum physics was quite simple. Reality however proved me wrong.

Asking myself this question would be like Dale Earnheart Jr. asking himself what makes a great racecar driver or Doug Gust as to what makes a great ATV Moto-x racer. These men are top-notch players if you will in their field of expertise. Kind of like Steven Hawkins in the realm of physics or Alester Crowley in the realm of black magic..Muaaahaaa.

All these men will give you sound advice, however none of them could make you great.

Only you can do that for yourself.

So does it really matter what makes a good pick-up artist? I could go on to list the attributes that every great Pick-up artist of their time has had.

Confidence
Extroverted Personality
Strong sexual identity
Great communication skills
Excellent ability to engross those around him into his reality

However merely saying these things would be like trying to explain the super string theory to an eight year old.

The eight year old merely wants to teleport his GI Joe dolls; he doesn’t care about the physics involved.

Now unless I want to define some sort of mold so that I can produce like-minded clones of myself (Grin) then I honestly cannot answer this question in its entirety. There have been people before me who have done just this. They have created thriving businesses selling their products to the masses. They have made small fortunes marketing their methods at over inflated prices and then manipulating gullible individuals into believing that they hold the answers to the problems that they face.

It is the basis of consumerism, though let’s be savvy consumers for the moment. Does a person really need to spend close to three grand of his hard earned money just to sedate his longing for beautiful women?

It’s like my computer desk. I’d sure like to have one, however I cannot justify the cost. Three thousand dollars can get me a lot of things. Like that lift kit for my jeep or a cool gun to shoot. Or I can buy three grand in bonds and secure my financial future. Do I really need a computer desk anyways? In time maybe, but right now no. In time perhaps a computer desk will be made available to me at a cutthroat price. Or even free from the home of a friend!

I applaud their success. This is a capitalist society after all. They have figured out how to teach the eight year old how to teleport his GI Joe dolls without having to teach him the physics involved all the while snatching up his lunch money without him even questioning why.

I want to get the eight year old to understand what he is actually doing.

Think about it, you may be getting girls, but are they the girls you REALLY want? Or are they simply what have been made available to you through a few crafty pallor tricks and subtle manipulation tactics.

A great PUA once said to me, “go ahead, game my girl. Let’s see where it gets you.”

That was a turning point in my game. And I have been asking myself for a very long time, what makes a great pick-up artist?

For it is my dream to have such a deep connection with a woman that no other man could possible compete. She would be out toying around with lesser men leaving them exasperated and begging for more. All the while there I sit confident in knowing that they couldn’t possibly get her. I only deal in the best of women after all.

If by chance they win her over. Well, then obviously the best man had won and I will have the strength to let her go and move on, with no hard feelings. She obviously doesn’t feel the same way and so that is how it has to be.

Listen, I’m going to tell you the truth. Don’t you doubt for a moment that every time I’m seeing a girl, I’m not out justifying my emotions for her by comparing her to every other woman I meet. I am. I have high standards and if I find myself in bed with another women, well then that tells me all I need to know.

If you are a woman and happen to be reading this, a man who strays, isn’t getting what he needs from you. Think about it. The next time you are out with your man, don’t get all upset with him if he flirts with an attractive women. If you were my girl and you gave me grief, I’d break up with you right on the spot. My girlfriends respect me first and foremost. Plus, I don’t commit to just anyone. You have to earn it and then maintain it. In fact, the dynamics of interpersonal relationships are so vast; it will be a complete distraction to the point I’m making in this story. The bottom line, it comes down to need. I don’t need to maintain a relationship. With so many free and available hot women around, I don’t need a relationship for sex.

There is no such thing as cheating without commitment after all.

If I were really taken with by a woman, then I wouldn’t desire to sleep with other women. I would desire only her. There have been only three women in my life that I felt this way about. Two have broken my heart.

I wonder if the third will…. A great pick-up artist never puts all his eggs on one basket remember. He also has back-up plans and the resolve to see things through to the end. Whatever the outcome may be, a great pick-up artist will be able to capitalize off of it.

If one is to achieve their dreams, then one has to be willing to live them. With great risk comes great reward. A broken heart is a small price to pay in order to live my dreams.

A great pick-up artist doesn’t shy away or cower in fear. Instead he gives himself only three seconds to make the approach and goes in regardless of whatever he may be feeling at the moment. Even if his mother just dies, he will put the moves on the hottest woman at her funeral, so long as she isn’t related that is.

That’s what makes a great pick-up artist.

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