Why Women Are Still Single (Be Humble)

июня 08, 2021

So I was out when a friend asked me to approach a couple of blondes that he thought was hot. I don't really care too much about picking up women anymore, even if it's how I make my money. Anyhow, anytime a guy asks me to approach a girl, I tend to be very humble, so I approached one of these blonde girls without saying anything too fancy or being too egotistical about it.

Anyhow, when I got up to leave, said girl asked me to stay and we ended up talking for awhile. After awhile, I introduced a friend and walked away. When I was back inside, the same girl was being hit on by three random guys, and she looked at me and asked me to come get her. We ended up talking a little longer, and when our little interaction was over, one of the three guys walked over trying to give me a high five and talking about how tight my game was to be able to so easily pull a girl that looked like her.

I don't even think that this guy really understood what went on, and to be honest, I never really gave it any thought until recently. Have you ever given any thought as to why so many women are single but claim to want boyfriends? There are single guys, right, so why don't these women have boyfriends.? That's what this post is about.

Women don't have boyfriends because almost all men who approach them fall into one of two categories. There are basically "nice guys" and douchebags. Of course, what a lot of men don't realize, is that when a girl is referring to "nice guys", she isn't referring to a guy that she thinks is nice. "Nice guys" is just another term for guys that are needy, too into them, lack backbones, are afraid to go after what they want (approach women), are physically repulsive, or are just plain weird.

And then there are douchebags. These are guys that are overly confident, drunk, braggarts, mean, come at them with lines, seem fake, over-excited, or are overly aggressive, etc. Overall, these are guys that just have no kind of humbleness. Women may be physically attracted to this guys, but are turned off by their illusions of grandeur. When I'm out and I look at guys approaching women, they almost always fall into one of those two categories.

Then who is the rare guy that actually has a lot of success with women? This is usually the guy that looks pretty decent, he goes after what he wants, but he doesn't let his ego get the best of him or past success with women go to his head. He doesn't act like he is better than anyone else, he is honest, genuine, he doesn't come at women with lines, he isn't overly aggressive or excited, but at the same time, he can hold a decent conversation, and he knows how to be masculine without over-doing it.

Some of you might be wondering if there are any examples of such men. I'll give you one that just now came to my mind. Pauly D from Jersey Shore. He has the looks, nice clothes, and is a DJ. However, he doesn't let what he has going for him go to his head. He's really chill, genuine, doesn't have a big ego, and isn't overly aggressive like his counter-part, The Situation. In fact, you could say that Vinny is like the "nice guy", The Situation is the douchebag, and Paul D is the one that got it right.

So what can you do? You can get yourself together and at least make yourself presentable to women. And then once you know that you're looking good, you have to get rid of the cheesy lines, be honest, chill on the alcohol, and keep your ego in check. And what I mean by keeping your ego in check is that even if a lot of girls do find you physically attractive, be humble about it, and don't try to come off like you're some kind of pimp or guy that has it all.
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To elaborate a little further, let's say that I go into a nightclub. I know for a fact that I'm going to be one of the tallest guys in the club. I also know that I have slept with a lot of women. However, if I come at women like I am all that, a lot of them might be turned off by it. Women don't want to be put on a pedestal, but at the same time, a lot of them are turned off by a guy that approaches them like he doesn't have to earn their respect first. This is why in a previous post, I said that you might want to apologize for just barging in and interrupting the conversation that they were already having with their friend(s).

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