The Bad Boy Cheat Code

It's always amusing to see other gurus talking about assholes and bad boys. If you're reading their stuff about bad boys and assholes, you can tell that they're basing it either off of movies, or the one or two asshole friends that they've had. If you're experienced, you can tell that they're not basing much of it on their own personal experiences over time, nor or they basing it on being around a large number of assholes or bad boys throughout their lives.

Seeing this, I thought I'd talk about what I like to call the bad boy cheat code. I call it a cheat code, because if you know it, then you can rack up a high number of lays. This is why guys who try to fake being a bad boy or asshole don't get laid a lot. This is a move that natural assholes and bad boys instinctually do.

So what is it that you need to understand? Women who are attracted to bad boys and assholes EXPECT them to try to sleep with them right away. If you try to take them on a date, you lose. If you try to be their buddy first, you lose. Even if they resist your advances, they still expect you to quickly make a move. These women know what they're getting, and they expect you to do it.

For a moment, let's talk about my past. My first Asian girl was a virgin. I ended up fucking her in public several times and sneaking into her house to fuck her. After I broke up with her? The very next guy she was with ended up tag-teaming her with another guy. Also, my brothers and cousins would always invite over a girl or two, and end up tag-teaming them. The same could be said of a lot of the girls I knew who liked bad boys and thugs, etc. Not to say that all girls who like bad boys want to be tag-teamed. I'm just using it as an example of how similar most of them are and what they will let the guys that they like get away with.

I've always wondered how I racked up so many lays in college, while some of my better-looking and taller friends couldn't seem to get one lay. Why did I get so many more lays than them? I got them because I had the edgy bad boy personality, and I always sought to take advantage of women by always going for the one-night stand, or if I got a number, I'd invite these girls over directly to my apartment. My friends? Always asked these girls out on dates.

You have to understand that the typical girl that is only attracted to bad boys, expects you to consistently behave like one (not necessarily a jerk, but have your own self-interests in mind). That is why so many black PUAs struggle. Women who typically like black guys, like them because they're bad boys, and when the black PUA comes along trying to be a gentleman, asking these girls on dates and whatnot, he becomes a very effective "boner killer" for these girl (chicks with boners, har har).

And if you're a black guy or a guy who runs "attraction" going the bad boy or asshole route, then I'm pretty sure that you were talking to a girl who seemed REALLY into you, you asked for her number, texted her or asked her out on a date, and then got nothing. What the hell happened? She was expecting you to either bone her that night or invite her over, even if she planned on rejecting you the first time or two. When did you fuck up? You fucked up when you asked her on a date, as it is a boner killer for her.

Now let's focus on a few of the virgins I had in college. One virgin fucked me within an hour of meeting me. Another virgin started crying because I didn't fuck her the first time we met up. And another virgin's first sentence to me when she met me was "I want to fuck you".* What is the point of mentioning this? The point is that the girl's personality or sexual past DOES NOT MATTER. All that matters is that she liked you because you gave off bad boy or asshole vibes, and she wants you to treat her like one would.

Hopefully, this post gave you insight into what women who like bad boys and assholes expect of them. They expect you to attempt to take advantage of them. They expect you to go for sex very quickly. But what they don't expect, is for you to ask them out on dates, wining and dining them. When you do that, you become no different than the typical nice guy, and for them, that completely kills thier desire for you.**

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How does this relate to the "Women Will Let You Know" post? If you've been going the whole bad boy asshole route, then you've most likely been getting vibes that the girl wanted you to make an advance. Also, there are ways to test the waters without prematurely making a full push.

For example, in the "My First Black Girl" story, I simply threw out there that I'd probably be leaving soon. She asked me where I was going. After that, I made the push to get her home. Another example would be texting a girl after a bar closes and asking her what she is up to. If she says that she is going to bed, then I wouldn't make a push to come over. However, if she says that she is just hanging out or bored, then I would take full advantage and ask her if she wants to hang out. These are opportunities that bad boys will take advantage of, while the typical guy doesn't even think to do so.

*Vegas said that she was with three guys, but I'm pretty sure that she lied, as she was insanely tight and seemed to be in the same pain as a virgin. Not "she's not wet enough" tight, but virgin "I can't even get in half of my dick with a lubricated condom", tight.

**Consistently being a bad boy or asshole doesn't mean treating them like shit. It simply means to take advantage of them and have your own selfish sexual interests in mind. Most women will still want to be spoken to with some kind of respect.

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