To Fuck, Or Not To Fuck
Alex T. asks:
Hey man,
I was always the youngest in my grade because i skipped kindergarden when i was 6. Why my parents thought this to be a good idea I do not know (I thought it was a good idea because I was 6 god damnit and who the hell wants another year of school.) So my entire education ended up pussifying me with the peak of my pussyness occuring around 8th grade. Pretty much my whole life has been me battling my pussyness and learning that there really isn’t anything to be afraid of in this society. So now I’ve been out of high school for 2 years and I feel a whole lot different than I did before. What changed me the most I think is my job as a cashier at a grocery store. For 8 hours a day I do nothing but have forced interactions with people. Ive learned things to say to make them smile, I’ve learned subtleties in behavior that reveal a persons true state of mind, I get lots of girls flippin their hair at me n shit. One problem for me though is moving these interactions into public. I’ve tried going up to a couple super hot girls in a sandle store while I was on vacation and although i got them giggling and looking at each other I didn’t know how to escalate the situation to actually bringing them back to my hotel room (which of course was my goal on vacation). So I guess my main problem is escalation, I’ve always loved girls (maybe too much) since 1st grade really. I remember vividly looking at the girl in my class that I liked and almost going into giddy laughter when she was the one that ended up sitting next to me for the rest of the year. Of course I was a wussy ass 1st grader and I wasn’t making any moves :P. So I guess this isn’t really a direct question, just a vocalization of my journey with women. I’m still a virgin, I’m am pushing myself a little bit to get rid of it, but I’ve learned from other peoples mistakes and am not gonna bang the first thing that says yes (unless she’s good looking and it’s a good situation). I had a chance while on vacation to get this 16 year old girl but her face was unfeatured and a little downs syndromesque but she had a good body. I was staying with a few of my friends and when i asked them what they thought of the situation they said they would lose respect for me. (I’m almost 20 years old so there was a little bit of a power imbalance) This may have been a device of jelously, I learned that her sister was really hot when i saw them together later when they were checking out of the hotel, also I learned that if i pushed myself, went against the decision making of my peers and relied on myself I could have had what I wanted. I’m going on a rant here, I guess I’m a little uncomfortable around the female form and I am fearful for making that push for intimacy. Any suggestions?
Thanks for not charging me :P,
I need a good nickname to put here…
Hey Alex,
The only thing to fear is fear itself.
One thing that comes to mind when it comes to getting girls from the store to hang out in public is to hand them your very own “business” card along with their receipt.
The only person you can really trust is yourself. If you’re hesitant about having sex then sit down with yourself and understand why it is you don’t want to rush into having sex. If you’re just afraid of women then hire some hot escort for a girl friend experience.
It may seem a little expensive to get a escort, but it could save you a lot of time and money that you’d spend on a girlfriend to get her into bed.
Sticking your dick inside a girls vagina isn’t everything. If you think it is then you should go somewhere else.
P.S. You DON’T need to give yourself a nickname. The reason I go by “V” is cause it came from another nickname (”Virgin”), and I also like my privacy. Just be yourself, it’s all you can and should do.
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