Thoughts on Dating

Alex T. asks: Hey man, I was always the youngest in my grade because i skipped kindergarden when i was 6. Why my parents thought this to be a good idea I do not know (I thought it was a good idea because I was 6 god damnit and who the hell wants another year of school.) So my entire education ended up pussifying me with the peak of my pussyness occuring around 8th grade. Pretty much my whole life has been me battling my pussyness and learning that there really isn’t anything to be afraid of in this society. So now I’ve been out of high school for 2 years and I feel a whole lot different than I did before. What changed me the most I think is my job as a cashier at a grocery store. For 8 hours a day I do nothing but have forced interactions with people. Ive learned things to say to make them smile, I’ve learned subtleties in behavior that reveal a persons true state of mind, I get lots of girls flippin their hair at me n shit. One problem for me though is moving these interactions into p...

Persistence, persistence, persistence. How important is this truly when it comes to attracting women? Does it really make all the difference? Is it the key factor that the average man misses completely? And, if so, how does it really work? Well, I can tell you right now that persistence is so incredibly important in the attraction process. The reason for this is because it establishes and builds trust with a woman. Trust isn’t everything to a woman, but it’s certainly one of the fundamental bases you will need to build with her. So first I want you to understand a fundamental distinction that will allow you to gauge whether a woman is truly interested in you. There are two things you need to look out for. Her sincerity and her responsiveness to your leadership. Her sincerity is gauged by the correlation between what she says and how she acts. The more she follows through on her words and actions in response to you, the better. Responsiveness to your leadership is gauged by her ability ...

  Excerpted from  Women, Sex and Dating for the Single Man Before anything, if you think all women are basically the same, this alone can hurt your chances in trying to meet that right woman for you. I once attended a workshop for men on dating women (Yes, there are workshops like that.), and there was this one man who stood out from all the rest. He was an average-looking, nice, sociable guy, but he was very opinionated with his views on attractive women. He exclaimed that attractive women are basically all the same. He thought, no…  he knew  that an attractive woman would not date not date a guy who wasn’t as good looking as she, and if he was short. He also thought that the beautiful women only wanted the guy who had a lucrative career. He was dwelling on this so much that it even got to the point where he was beginning to think all women were like this. Little did he realize that his thinking was actually hurting his chance sin ever trying to find that right one ...